Many things require your attention when caring for a dog in heat. Reducing her restlessness is among the hardest.
We remember when our dog was in heat for the first time. It was driving her crazy. She was whining and crying most of the time, and it was hard to calm her down.
But even worse, it was driving us crazy. We had to keep her inside as much as we could, and even when we let her out, we had to stay with her. No matter the hour, day or night.
You’ve probably been there. Maybe you are there right now. Is that barking and whining we hear in the background? Fortunately, there are several things you can do to calm down a female dog in heat.
NOTE: Dog trainers often suggest training to calm down a dog during heat. This is done by ignoring restless behaviors and rewarding (with treats and praise) calm ones. We will not delve into this here because we want you to make your dog not only act calm but actually feel calm.
- Give your dog attention. It’s the most effective way to calm her. Forms of attention may include talking to your dog, walking, playing, brushing, and a few more that you will find here. Even sitting in the same room may work. The bad news is that your dog will also require attention at night. We have noticed that it’s easier to calm our dog when we invite her to sleep in our bedroom. Another option is for one of us to sleep on a couch close to a place where she sleeps. That way, we are near her and can talk to her or pet her if she gets nervous.
Exercise your dog. Exercise is good. It helps you (and your dog) to stay in shape. But most importantly, it helps her to rid herself of excess energy. Dogs who are sufficiently active sleep better. Exercise may include walking, running, ball chasing, training, and more. However, outdoor activities like walking call for extra precautions when your dog is in heat. Don’t let her run off leash, and if possible, drive her in your car to a distant area. Don’t engage her in group activities involving other dogs. You can find more tips on walking a dog in heat here. On the other hand, if your dog is already exhausted and does not want to exercise, don’t push her.
- Leave out chews and treats. Not every owner is able to spend 24 hours a day with her dog to calm her. However, even if you can’t be around all day, you can leave out treats for your dog. Choose those that cannot be eaten in one gulp. You want you dog to chew, chew, and chew for as long as possible. Bully sticks (yes, the dried out bull penis) and others of a similar kind are a good choice. They last long and are tasty (though we haven’t tried it) and natural. Try other chews, as well, to see which are preferred by your dog and which are keeping her busy for longer. NOTE: Real bones, especially poultry bones, are not good. They can be lethal, and surgical removal of bones from the throats or stomachs of dogs is not a rarity in vet clinics.
- Leave toys out for your dog. Toys are another alternative to keep your dog busy and give her a chance to focus on something other than the heat. Squeaky toys are very attractive to most dogs, but food dispenser toys are a very good choice, too. The latter are usually hollow toys that can be filled with food, both dry and wet. They let a dog receive small amounts of food as long as she continues to play. To keep your female dog’s attention on her toys longer, you may wish to use more than one and take them away when they are not needed. NOTE: Whenever using food, make sure to count it as a part of your dog’s daily food intake.
- Will medicine work? When the options above are not enough, you can try herbal or homeopathic medicine. They are intended for comforting dogs in stressful situations, such as driving in a car, vet visits, and holiday fireworks, but they also work well for dogs in heat. You can get them at pet stores or vet clinics. However, while a vet visit is a single act, your dog’s heat lasts a bit longer, and long-term usage of these medications must be done carefully. Make sure to read the manufacturer’s instructions and consult a vet.
- Spay your dog. This is not a technique to calm your dog when she’s in heat but a way to prevent her from cycling at all. We recommend that you spay your dog if you are not planning to breed her. It will save you both a plethora of future trouble. You can find more information about spaying a dog here. However, spaying a dog while she’s in heat is not recommended. You should wait until it ends before performing the surgery. Consult your veterinarian if you have more questions.
Most likely, it’s gonna take more than one of the methods mentioned above to calm your dog during heat. Regardless of whether you choose long walks, running, buying tons of toys for your dog, or even medicine, we know that the most powerful weapon when a dog is in heat is patience. Good Luck!
This article is a part of series about dogs in heat.